Ok, it is only November 13th and apparently it is already "officially" the Christmas season. Why is it that we can't even make it through Halloween before the retailers are putting up Christmas decorations and doing big countdowns on how many shopping days we have left? Seriously people!
Why can't we just focus on one holiday at a time and then deal with the next one as it comes? I noticed on Monday as I was leaving the office that the management company that owns our building has workers busily setting up the platform in our parking lot for the large Christmas Tree they erect every year and the bushes are already adorned with twinkling Christmas lights. I am already seeing commercials on TV for Christmas decorations at Lowe's. Apparently, according to friends of mine they are already playing Christmas music at Wal-Mart. My husband and I went into Target over the weekend and there were at least 10 aisles dedicated to Christmas decorations up already. I know that Hallmark has had their Christmas ornaments out for months now! Is this ridiculous or what???
Don't get me wrong. I LOVE Christmas. I love Christmas music and decorations and giving gifts to my loved ones. I love our Christmas Eve service at church and getting to spend time with my family and my family's family (i.e. - my in-laws and my sister-in-law's family). I love being reminded of the real reason for Christmas - the birth of Jesus. But I still think that we should be able to get through one holiday before we start throwing ourselves into the next one!!
For the first time last night, I saw a commercial on TV that was actually about Thanksgiving. What's that? Thanksgiving? Oh that's the holiday that's in exactly 2 weeks where we gather as families and take time to remember what we are thankful for. What? No gifts are given? Then it's not important to retailers apparently. I might point out that the commercial I saw on TV last night was for Publix (local grocery store). They can do commercials about Thanksgiving because it is a retail bonanza for them. Although I will say the commercial brought tears to my eyes as it showed several families talking about how thankful they were to be together and how much they loved one another.
There are 2 very important members of my family that won't be with us this Thanksgiving... my grandmother and grandfather who've both passed away in the last two years. I'm reminded that while I was always thankful for them in the past, I guess I never really stopped and thought about it that much while they were still with us. I never took the time before, I guess, because I never knew what it was like to not have them around. Now that they are no longer with us, I really take the time to stop and be thankful for those in my family that I am still able to celebrate with.
The point of all this? That this year I will be focusing on Thanksgiving before I focus on Christmas. Christmas can wait for now. I will celebrate Christmas and I will be out on Black Friday just like everyone else, but for now... for now I am focusing on my family and my loved ones and making sure that I tell them all how thankful I am to still have them in my life. Make sure you take the time to remind your loved ones how much you love them and are thankful for them during this "thankful" season.
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Remember the Veterans...
As we all sit back and remember the Veterans in our lives, it's an important day to thank those extra special veterans in our lives. I have been very fortunate to have 3 wonderful Veterans in my life:
My grandfather, Robert Howard Rutherford, Sr. served in WWII in the Air Force division of the Army. At that time there was not a separate Air Force. He was in the 446 and served in England. He received the Soldier's Medal for rushing onto a burning plane to save a man on the plane. He truly was one of the most amazing men I have ever known in my life. He passed away in August of 2007, but not before teaching my brother and I some of the most important lessons of our lives. He and my grandmother (Mary) lived in Tuskegee, Alabama and raised three wonderful children and not only did they all live through the Civil Rights Movement in one of the hot spots of the time, but my grandfather was the Mayor of Tuskegee when the schools there were ordered to integrate. He had an amazing strength and determination and was a great Christian man. He truly is one of my heroes and I miss him terribly.
My other grandfather, Hermon Louis Sutton, fought in the Army in the Korean War. He is one of the sweetest, kindest men I've ever known. I am very fortunate to still have him in my life and he loves to tell stories of he and my grandmother (Pat) when they were young and dating. They raised two children and now have three grandchildren and one great-grandchild. Although, I'm sure I'm the favorite out of all of them. :) He is a devoted follower of Christ and I admire him for his desire to share his love for God with his entire family. He truly is a wonderful man.
And finally - my step-father, Harold Dean Cremer who served in the Coast Guard in the Vietnam War. He is truly an example for all men. He grew up in the small town of Minonk, Illinois and has worked his way up to where he is now. He has been a wonderful second father to my brother and I and has taught us many valuable lessons in life. If it weren't for him, I honestly don't think that I'd be as financially stable as I am now. He has taught me so much about managing my finances as well as my life. He has taught me to be honest and to live my life simply. He is definitely a no-frills, man's man and I wouldn't have it any other way. I only hope that my husband is as good of a father to our children as he's been to us and to his own two children.
Do you know a Veteran? If so, tell them how much they mean to you today!!!
My grandfather, Robert Howard Rutherford, Sr. served in WWII in the Air Force division of the Army. At that time there was not a separate Air Force. He was in the 446 and served in England. He received the Soldier's Medal for rushing onto a burning plane to save a man on the plane. He truly was one of the most amazing men I have ever known in my life. He passed away in August of 2007, but not before teaching my brother and I some of the most important lessons of our lives. He and my grandmother (Mary) lived in Tuskegee, Alabama and raised three wonderful children and not only did they all live through the Civil Rights Movement in one of the hot spots of the time, but my grandfather was the Mayor of Tuskegee when the schools there were ordered to integrate. He had an amazing strength and determination and was a great Christian man. He truly is one of my heroes and I miss him terribly.
My other grandfather, Hermon Louis Sutton, fought in the Army in the Korean War. He is one of the sweetest, kindest men I've ever known. I am very fortunate to still have him in my life and he loves to tell stories of he and my grandmother (Pat) when they were young and dating. They raised two children and now have three grandchildren and one great-grandchild. Although, I'm sure I'm the favorite out of all of them. :) He is a devoted follower of Christ and I admire him for his desire to share his love for God with his entire family. He truly is a wonderful man.
And finally - my step-father, Harold Dean Cremer who served in the Coast Guard in the Vietnam War. He is truly an example for all men. He grew up in the small town of Minonk, Illinois and has worked his way up to where he is now. He has been a wonderful second father to my brother and I and has taught us many valuable lessons in life. If it weren't for him, I honestly don't think that I'd be as financially stable as I am now. He has taught me so much about managing my finances as well as my life. He has taught me to be honest and to live my life simply. He is definitely a no-frills, man's man and I wouldn't have it any other way. I only hope that my husband is as good of a father to our children as he's been to us and to his own two children.
Do you know a Veteran? If so, tell them how much they mean to you today!!!
Friday, November 7, 2008
Like Sands Through the Hourglass...
Why is it that everyone in this world seems to think their time is more important than mine? Perfect example... my boss. It's currently 11 a.m. and I've already been called into his office twice to talk about an upcoming presentation he's putting on that I'm preparing for him. Now I understand that the first "meeting" he was actually telling me things that were useful and that I needed to know. The second "meeting" was to tell me the EXACT same thing he told me in the first one. Um, are you kidding me? That's what I wanted to ask, but I didn't. I just sat there looking at him dully with my arms crossed waiting for him to finish. Now, keep in mind that while he's sitting here reiterating what he's ALREADY told me, there are numerous other things that are currently more pressing than this presentation (which isn't even until next Thursday) and he's keeping me from doing those things. So this makes me even more irritated by it. It didn't help things that when I woke up this morning I was telling myself, "You MUST go to work. You HAVE to go to work. GO TO WORK!! NOW!"
Should it really be THAT hard to get up and go to work? I'm reminded of a book I just finished reading where one of the main characters told her husband that work wasn't meant to be "fun"... if it were, it wouldn't be called "work". Well I don't want my life to be like that. I don't want to get up and go to a job I hate and waste more of my time on bending to some one else's beck and call. Yet, most of us do that on a daily basis. I think it's sad that so many of us are stuck in jobs and careers that we hate simply because we can't afford to do something different. I am very fortunate that in May of 2011 my husband will be out of school and starting a job that will allow me to go back to school and pursue that dream of mine. Whatever that is... I haven't figured it out yet. And who's to say that once I do that and start a new career that I won't be right back where I started? Working for people I don't like or back in the politics of the work place. Life is never a guarantee, I guess.
I spent last night going through albums from my childhood and scanning in pictures for a project I'm working on and I was taken back to that time when I didn't have a care in the world. When your parents took care of you and you didn't have to worry about if you'd have money to buy clothes or food. You didn't worry if you were going to have enough money to pay for the mortgage or to buy groceries or if you were going to have to put it on a credit card because once again some unexpected emergency popped up. Ah, those were definitely simpler times. Where was the class in high school or college that told you that being an adult was hard? That taught you about managing your money or picking the right career for you? I guess we just have to learn from these things that we deal with as adults and make sure that we teach our own children these things so that they don't end up in the same position that we are. I guess that's what my parents always meant by saying they wanted a better life for me than they had. Ok, I really think this has turned into a ramble. :) I'm good at doing that!
The bottom line? I need to be the boss! :)
Should it really be THAT hard to get up and go to work? I'm reminded of a book I just finished reading where one of the main characters told her husband that work wasn't meant to be "fun"... if it were, it wouldn't be called "work". Well I don't want my life to be like that. I don't want to get up and go to a job I hate and waste more of my time on bending to some one else's beck and call. Yet, most of us do that on a daily basis. I think it's sad that so many of us are stuck in jobs and careers that we hate simply because we can't afford to do something different. I am very fortunate that in May of 2011 my husband will be out of school and starting a job that will allow me to go back to school and pursue that dream of mine. Whatever that is... I haven't figured it out yet. And who's to say that once I do that and start a new career that I won't be right back where I started? Working for people I don't like or back in the politics of the work place. Life is never a guarantee, I guess.
I spent last night going through albums from my childhood and scanning in pictures for a project I'm working on and I was taken back to that time when I didn't have a care in the world. When your parents took care of you and you didn't have to worry about if you'd have money to buy clothes or food. You didn't worry if you were going to have enough money to pay for the mortgage or to buy groceries or if you were going to have to put it on a credit card because once again some unexpected emergency popped up. Ah, those were definitely simpler times. Where was the class in high school or college that told you that being an adult was hard? That taught you about managing your money or picking the right career for you? I guess we just have to learn from these things that we deal with as adults and make sure that we teach our own children these things so that they don't end up in the same position that we are. I guess that's what my parents always meant by saying they wanted a better life for me than they had. Ok, I really think this has turned into a ramble. :) I'm good at doing that!
The bottom line? I need to be the boss! :)
Thursday, November 6, 2008
To Blog or Not To Blog...
Why do we blog? I guess it's because we have something to say that we feel is interesting enough for the whole world to read. Or maybe we want to teach others how to do something we feel we are skilled at doing. Who knows why so many people out there have blogs, but everywhere you turn there are new ones popping up left and right.
So. Why am I blogging? That remains to be seen at this point. I'm still not sure why I'm doing this. Maybe it's because I read so many different blogs myself and I feel like, hey! I could do that! Or maybe it's just an issue of boredom. I've been bored a lot lately. Maybe it's because my friend B is starting her own blog and I've been "inspired" despite her attempts to convince me that I'm expecting too much from her blog. Whatever my real (subconscious) reason is for doing this, here I am. Writing away on the internet. Who knows what I'll end up writing about, but hopefully I'll be able to keep it up and this won't become another project that I get bored with after a month or so.
Will anyone read my blog? I hope so. I hope that despite my boredom that leads me to write on here, it won't bore the crap out of the rest of you who might deign to read this.
So hello blogging world! Here I am!!! Let's hope that I don't get lost here in the blogging world as often as I do in the "real world".
So. Why am I blogging? That remains to be seen at this point. I'm still not sure why I'm doing this. Maybe it's because I read so many different blogs myself and I feel like, hey! I could do that! Or maybe it's just an issue of boredom. I've been bored a lot lately. Maybe it's because my friend B is starting her own blog and I've been "inspired" despite her attempts to convince me that I'm expecting too much from her blog. Whatever my real (subconscious) reason is for doing this, here I am. Writing away on the internet. Who knows what I'll end up writing about, but hopefully I'll be able to keep it up and this won't become another project that I get bored with after a month or so.
Will anyone read my blog? I hope so. I hope that despite my boredom that leads me to write on here, it won't bore the crap out of the rest of you who might deign to read this.
So hello blogging world! Here I am!!! Let's hope that I don't get lost here in the blogging world as often as I do in the "real world".
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